i.love.you
Wednesday, February 25, 2009
Friday, February 20, 2009
time-out
what is the meaning of this simple word ? does it mean a sub-equivalent of a break up ? what actually happens for the person to ask for a time-out ?
he can ask for a time-out for the reason that he needs to think about the relationship and where it is heading. of course you'd agree; you love him and you would want him to be happy. but, what actually is going on in his mind ? is he really thinking about the relationship or is he just trying to find an excuse to break up with you ? why does time-out exists in relationships in the first place ? time-outs are just lame excuses that people make use of to just get away from their partners. maybe there are just but a few exceptions where relationships grow stronger after a time-out. but that's about it.
sometimes, you just have to face the fact; he's just not that into you.
he can ask for a time-out for the reason that he needs to think about the relationship and where it is heading. of course you'd agree; you love him and you would want him to be happy. but, what actually is going on in his mind ? is he really thinking about the relationship or is he just trying to find an excuse to break up with you ? why does time-out exists in relationships in the first place ? time-outs are just lame excuses that people make use of to just get away from their partners. maybe there are just but a few exceptions where relationships grow stronger after a time-out. but that's about it.
sometimes, you just have to face the fact; he's just not that into you.
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
Sunday, February 15, 2009
cupid struck, again.
mirul and his girlfriend. we went shisha-ing together. (:
i got not one, but two watches. thanks hunny. (:
oh, and i got me this cute little thing. (:
Friday, February 13, 2009
mr. men
There are certain things in life that you will never know. For example, how many stars there really are in the night sky ? Or even if wishes really do come true or is it just mere coincidence ? Maybe we’ll never know at all.
But one thing that we do know that is that we all, as humans, have emotional feelings. Even boys do cry sometimes. It’s just that they tend not to show it. Maybe it’s their larger than life ego, but they just don’t show it (most of the time). They do not want to show their vulnerable side. Boys, or men, believe that they have to live up to their own perceived notion of masculinity; that men don’t shed a tear. But they forget that a man has every right to cry and not feel like a sissy for it. It’s only natural for humans to cry or show emotions; that is what separates us from animals.
Men need to learn the fact that they are also vulnerable at times and that it is perfectly okay to let it show. So men, put that ego aside and show your true emotions.
But one thing that we do know that is that we all, as humans, have emotional feelings. Even boys do cry sometimes. It’s just that they tend not to show it. Maybe it’s their larger than life ego, but they just don’t show it (most of the time). They do not want to show their vulnerable side. Boys, or men, believe that they have to live up to their own perceived notion of masculinity; that men don’t shed a tear. But they forget that a man has every right to cry and not feel like a sissy for it. It’s only natural for humans to cry or show emotions; that is what separates us from animals.
Men need to learn the fact that they are also vulnerable at times and that it is perfectly okay to let it show. So men, put that ego aside and show your true emotions.
Saturday, February 7, 2009
imagine this.
you're in a room with somone you don't really fancy. his limbs are all tied up and he's laying flat on a table. what would you do ?
would you cut open his body just to see how a heart really looks like ? would you cut out his tongue, so that he would stop whining ? would you cut off his fingers and toes one by one and while singing nursery rhymes to him ? would you gouge out his eyes and use them for a game of table tennis ? would you consider taking out his intestines just to measure how long they really are ? would you squeeze his "sperm makers" so hard, that they explode ? and, would you do all of that, while he's still laying on the table, alive ?
sadistic, you might say ? it's not. it's just a thought.
Thursday, February 5, 2009
miserable at best.
the worst thing in the world
is seeing the one you love with the one they love.
you always love the one who leaves you
and leave the one who loves you.
Monday, February 2, 2009
the art of letting go.
the secret for letting go is to go with the flow. don't try to let go. instead, keep holding on. remember how much you love your partner, feel how much you want your partner, feel the gratitude for all the gifts your partner has given you, feel how much you wish you could bring back your partner.
by remembering your partner this way, you're grieving properly. this is how healing takes place. at first, you might feel the loss even more intensely. you may experience a variety of painful feelings: anger, sadness, fear and sorrow. feeling these different painful emotions is actually how we release an attachment. this pain is temporary.
eventually, after releasing an attachment, you may still feel some sorrow when you remember your partner. you will also feel the sweetness of your love and the strength of your spirit. when your heart is fully healed, remembering your partner is no longer painful; instead, your heart is filled with love and peace. this signals that you are ready to get involved again.
by remembering your partner this way, you're grieving properly. this is how healing takes place. at first, you might feel the loss even more intensely. you may experience a variety of painful feelings: anger, sadness, fear and sorrow. feeling these different painful emotions is actually how we release an attachment. this pain is temporary.
eventually, after releasing an attachment, you may still feel some sorrow when you remember your partner. you will also feel the sweetness of your love and the strength of your spirit. when your heart is fully healed, remembering your partner is no longer painful; instead, your heart is filled with love and peace. this signals that you are ready to get involved again.
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